Pick a Random Person and Surprise Them

Do Good Without Looking at Whom

Original post first shared in Spanish 5/16/19

If you are still unsure of what you can do different today, here I have a suggestion for you, “do something for somebody (randomly) who has never done anything for you”.

Kindness is the biggest act of love and when we show kindness (especially random kindness) we surprise ourselves with how deep we can love and how unconditional God’s love is for EVERYONE!

Don’t try to be selective about the person, because if you try to think about who has never done anything for you A LOT of people will come to that list, the cards will turn to yourself AGAIN, and this is not about you (not today) this is about doing and giving to someone else.

Don’t get me wrong you will be rewarded, but you have to learn how to put yourself last (wholeheartedly) so then God can put you first!

Take note of this very important three points that will help you be more clear tomorrow:

  1. Don’t do for others just because it looks good, at the end everyone will know the truth. #truth
  2. Give without expectation, those who give with love will ALWAYS receive a rearward from above #trust
  3. Love yourself enough to know that you don’t have to prove yourself, you have to be yourself and that will be your best proof of who you are #genuineness

Be the change that you want to see in others, do not wait for someone to do for YOU what you want, do for them what THEY want first. Remember the domino effect.

NOTE: The Spanish post was a trial to see if I have a Spanish audience who could also benefit from my blog and posts, please if you know anyone share the post and I will find the means and time to create more posts in Spanish or an effective translation tool so everyone can be well edified!

My beloved, my readers, my support, my clients, my motivation, as always with the best interest at heart

—Your coach and Lay Christian counselor, 

Denise Kilby

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach & Lay Christian Counselor. All rights reserved.


It’s Time

You may have been listening to someone preaching (jabbing,talking,nagging) about the same thing for many years and saying “that message isn’t for me, they’re talking about themselves” but in reality #today that message is trying to be #delivered to your life #tune your heart and mind to what is being said to you!

There is a warriors trying to come out from the victim mentality. There is a different mentality and it’s time that you start seeing it spiritually and culturally!

The only way to grow a muscle is by using it, use your mind, change your mindset, to transform your heart, you can do this! Train your mind, to begin again—it is hard but with the right help you can get through it! Listen to God’s voice!

Become aware of your mental and emotional health, without a healthy mind there are small chances of a good physical health. Wake up and decide to live your life, retake what belong to you love those who are around you to the fullest and embrace what it’s been given to you. If you feel like it’s hard to be yourself, take a mental assessment—ask yourself, can this be because you’re too worry about what everyone thinks of yourself? Be yourself!


If you struggle with the idea of starting over again, or taking the first steps to even begin for the first time in life I encourage you to find a local coach or friend who can help you, or email me and stay connected with me.

I me here to help!

As always,

With your best interest at heart!

©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coach Lay Christian Counselor. All rights reserved.