Every Question Have a Right to Be Answered

Can I talk now?

Nice Saturday!!

Be open minded and live prepared to receive the answers to the questions you ask. Always remember that with the attitude or character you make claims, demand and make certain requirements—towards family, friends, or people close to you, collaborators or others with whom you work. With that same strength, diligent and proficient people will give you clear answers and explain you in detail.

Before making any speculation, asking questions or demanding. Take a self-test so you can go prepared with the necessary tools to receive and organize all the ideas.

If you have doubts and questions, be willing to listen to the answers.

Be receptive and analytical. Use logical reasoning and think further than whats on the surface. What everyone can see doesn’t require to be questioned. And again, things aren’t always as they seem. Therefore, if you ask; you’re wondering you must be questioning something. Why not wait for the answer.

Learn how to let people talk.

Closed minds ask and answer themselves even after obtaining the answer from the direct source.

My though and prayer is that this Saturday (if reading in actual time, if not when you read this) all your affairs are carried out as you wish. And that every question or doubt you have is answered from the direct source, not from mere speculations or gossips. And may God mold your character and allow you to be prepared to listen and be open-minded and give you the ability to understand by giving you insight. Knowing that if we ask we must listen to answers and although they will not always be the ones we want. They will be the ones we need to stop wondering.

With love and care!


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Don’t Doubt Yourself

What we are facing is real but we can achieve more

Something to take on for the weekend 🥰 There’s nothing wrong with feeling frustrated and oppressed from time to time and not knowing what to do. In fact there’s nothing wrong with wanting to take care of your own circumstances at times—that is only revealing your human nature. Who else will handle your situations if not yourself right? (Well God…but😉)

As long as you know who takes care of you and you always come to your senses and surrender in humility understanding that you can’t do it alone you will always gain the wisdom, strength and willingness to keep going.

I don’t know where you find yourself today, but I find myself transitioning. Woohoo 🙌 🥳!!!!

And I think is one of the best times of my life, until… I think 🤔: WHAT 😯 DOES MY HUSBAND (really) THINKS? You know the unsaid words that sometimes you feel like creep up in silence?! Or that we feel like creep up in silence, and May never do…🤯

Don’t self doubt I suggest everyone, if you want to do something go out there and launch, be positive and believe in yourself. Always aware of your circumstances, but never afraid 😟 of the outcomes, look at life as an eternity realm of possibilities and embrace every step of the way.

BTW—and on a side note—I absolutely hope you can see those cute emojis I am trying to integrate to this writings.

If you fail at something BELIEVE ME you will over come it, because in life whatever you fail at you will retake it until you pass it otherwise you’ll be stuck on that chapter forever—and no one wants that!

Go out there with a WIN attitude, but be very careful of yourself and how you see others. Stay humble at all times.

I read on an article this morning that, too often, we try to win high self-regard in cheap ways. And without noticing or even purposely we put others down or make them seem as if they are less by comparing our achievements with theirs, simply because they are the weakest ones around us. We conform to cultural norms, believing what society values is what we value and how society defines success is how we must define success. These cheap tricks are unsustainable and lead to narcissism during good times and depression during hard times.

How you see yourself during the low times is what will define you during the high times.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.