Please Know That You Are Not Alone

In moments of despair, desolation, and spiritual brokenness, it can be very hard to see God’s hand working through your problems and we can begin to question a lot of things.

The normal begins to happen and raising thoughts begin to take place in our head:

  1.  Is there even a God? Sounds harsh, but its normal so don’t feel bad.
  2.  Can God even hear me, hello, are you there? Yes, you’re not the only one who feels like you don’t cry loud enough.
  3.  Am I Holy enough to be listened to by a Supernatural God, am I worthy? You begin to question and watch everything you do, you start watching your steps and at the time try to figure out if these is all an illusion. It is a reality—and that is okay.
  4. There’s wicked people down the street with more “blessings” than me “or at least it appears to be”. The struggle is real but so is God and you are not alone, He can hear, He loves you just how you are and He will not allow you to go through what you’re going through if He didn’t have great plans for you.
  5. Why do I have to go through this? Because God has great plans for you, because you are going to do great things in life and you need to go through this process to help others overcome when they are going through theirs.
  6. How much longer will this last? As long as God sees fits, you might just need to show that you have endurance, if you need help and guidance don’t be afraid to seek it. This will last until God is glorified through you, He loves you and this will not kill you, this will make you stronger.

I am here to tell you that “I’ve been there“, and like I always say—“done that and revisit from time to time—wouldn’t be human if didn’t!”

The key is on learning “how to pull out of it on time” without letting it eat the hope and faith out of our heart ♥️! – We have to treat the harvest from when it is STILL a seed, so it can germinate into what we want it to be, make sure to plant it in the right soil, so it get grow the fruits that we want —to then obtain more seeds and eventually reap a harvest of whatever kind we want!

-I hope you’re following me because I am talking about your mental, spiritual and emotional health here-

(If unsure how to this EMAIL ME below where is says “contact”, contact me so I can help and guide you, ask me any questions you may have.

Even Better look what Matthew 6:26 says > Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

You are nor alone, you are blessed far more than what you can imagine. There is a person in this world who is thinking of you right now and is going out of their way for you. Think outside your head, who could that person might be? And there is another being who loves you so much to use that person to be a blessing to your life, yes, God.

I am blessed to be a blessing to you all, honored to be able to be a life coach to be able to preach the gospel of salvation but most importantly to be able to reach out to be believers and not believers and offer counseling with equal respect regardless their belief system.


I want to encourage you to keep pursuing your dreams and your calling in life, to remind you that life is better when we help others whether through here or in person, and exhort you to seek help when you need it.

As always my beloved with your best interest at heart and mind,

—Denise Kilby #youaremore

Published by Denise Kilby

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying and learning on how to help others and expanding my view of life. I studied Criminal Psychology and Christian Counseling concentrating in marriage and Family Relations at Liberty University Online. I am a Fibromyalgia Fighter who has focused on living the best that I can every day of my life, my goal is to inspired others to live their lives to their fullest God given potential. In life we are given one body, one brain, and one flesh- with many muscles and we can't concentrate in the ones that hurt and don't work on one single day, we have to think on how we can make them stronger with the ones that do operate well. Staying focus and moving while we can is my key to happiness, pausing when my heart tells me to and thinking outside my head to maintain a healthy spiritual, mental, and fitness balance that brings me peace & provides physical healing. I am a mother of three blessings; 2 boys and a girl, wife, and daughter of God, passionate about people and the way the brain works. Who is always looking for ways to make life easier and helping individuals see the truth that lies within them, I know there’s more for everyone, and that we are far more than whatever our current circumstances may be, remembering that they might determine our situations but don't predict our future. I enjoy working with people and assisting individuals in many different areas, whatever it takes to make someone’s life better and meeting their professional needs. “Go as high as you can, there’s a world that needs your help” - Denise Kilby

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