The Process Will Not Keep The Blessing

In order for the water to come out of the faucet the water must first undergo the process of going through the pipes.

There is a process for everything in life, your blessing might just be going through the pipes before it starts flowing through the faucets of your life.

Understanding that we have to wait to gain or obtain certain things in life may sound easier than what it truly is, after all they always say that it is “easier done than said”, well let’s hold on that factual statement. The process of waiting can be one of the most daunting times in our lives, depending of how long one has to wait of course —we become anxious, discourage and in the worst circumstances take it up on ourselves to “make things happen” even if we have no clue on how to do it. Thus resulting in a ‘catastrophic mega fail’. Can you discern my level of anxiety just of the thought of fail or having to wait? Yeah, me too I can actually feel my sympathetic nervous system releasing sweat to my eccrine sweat gland (sweaty palms right now). Not literally but I can be very dramatic and happen to be pretty good at hyperbolically speaking so to speak.

“I have this huge desire to awaken everyone who sleep while they believe they are alive” -Denise

The same happens during the process of waiting, times seems longer, things seem impossible, and we become either more eager or discouraged. We forget that we can only control ourselves, our thoughts, our responses and our own actions.

Often times we react instead of taking action. Can this be any truer right now, there’s nothing more true than the trust itself and all truth comes from God (Needed to add that in there).

Our hearts are the source of our thoughts. What is in your heart? Anxiety, anger, bitterness, depression, laziness, hopelessness, hatred, hurt, perhaps immoral thoughts?

The problem can be that we don’t like to wait, (no kidding), but as time goes by I’ve come to realize that we actually waste more time waiting than doing while we are waiting, because of our fears and our lack of patience, perhaps our lack of understanding that’s there’s a process for everything in life. Thus, we end up wasting our time instead of investing it. Are you beginning to get a sense of things now, can you hear me cry? Good, now lets listen (wink)!

Mothers naturally have to wait a period of 40 weeks to birth a child (the waiting process), and as the months go by both parents (in most cases) grow anxious (in a good way) in a positive way, and submerge themselves in various types of preparation for the birth of their child (the price of waiting). They spend time, buying all the necessary things (and even the not so necessary) with a joyful heart, and eager to meet face to face with their unborn child for the first time, they have debates on what to name their UNBORN, they plan a baby shower etc. and in general don’t get discourage and forget what they’re waiting for just because they have to wait 40 weeks. All the contrary as time goes by their love grows strong and their anxiety grows bigger (but they continue to trust God). They don’t begin to try to birth their child before its due date! Can you imagine that? Now, that could be a “catastrophic mega fail” on parenting.

Now that we have gone to the extremes can we imagine a life without having to wait for anything? Good, because it’ll never be such a thing. There is a process for everything and that involves waiting.

Why are we always trying to avoid the process of waiting and trying to birth our own blessings? Our blessings comes from above, we don’t have to do anything to birth them because they will come on its due time! Woo… can you feel the heat?

Here are two questions that we should ask ourselves: Is what I’m waiting for, waiting for me to get ready for it? Is what I’m waiting for not so important for me that I am not taking the necessary steps to prepare for its arrival?

What if I told you that our blessing are on its way but it won’t get to us until we are prepared to receive them.

How about we precondition our minds?

While I’m waiting I will pray, I will invest my time, I will indulge and start getting ready for what I want, I will be diligent with how I spend my time, I will not waste my time. I will do for others while I wait for God to do for me… the list goes on.

There are so many things that we can do while we are waiting and here we are trying to change the hands of the clock.

If you like what you read and you what to read more feel free to connect, share this post, make it yours, save it and do whatever it takes to remind yourself and those you love that the waiting process is a beautiful inevitable opportunity to connect with our innermost and the creator of life.

Be blessed my dear!

With love,

Denise Kilby

Published by Denise Kilby

Along the path of my life I have focused on growing as an individual, studying and learning on how to help others and expanding my view of life. I studied Criminal Psychology and Christian Counseling concentrating in marriage and Family Relations at Liberty University Online. I am a Fibromyalgia Fighter who has focused on living the best that I can every day of my life, my goal is to inspired others to live their lives to their fullest God given potential. In life we are given one body, one brain, and one flesh- with many muscles and we can't concentrate in the ones that hurt and don't work on one single day, we have to think on how we can make them stronger with the ones that do operate well. Staying focus and moving while we can is my key to happiness, pausing when my heart tells me to and thinking outside my head to maintain a healthy spiritual, mental, and fitness balance that brings me peace & provides physical healing. I am a mother of three blessings; 2 boys and a girl, wife, and daughter of God, passionate about people and the way the brain works. Who is always looking for ways to make life easier and helping individuals see the truth that lies within them, I know there’s more for everyone, and that we are far more than whatever our current circumstances may be, remembering that they might determine our situations but don't predict our future. I enjoy working with people and assisting individuals in many different areas, whatever it takes to make someone’s life better and meeting their professional needs. “Go as high as you can, there’s a world that needs your help” - Denise Kilby

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