Leveled

“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. Rescue me from my enemies, Lord, for I hide myself in you. Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground”(Psalm 143:8-10 NIV).

May God’s Spirit lead you to a balanced life, to level grounds where you can make sound decisions based on His will for your life.

“You know what you were created for and where God wants to take you, when you think about such things and you become balanced and stable in life”—Denise K.

There will always be people to try to turn off your fire, but remember that you are ignited from within. Pursue your calling and walk in obedience, never confirming to this world but reminding this world that you live conformed by the Spirit of God who renewed your mind and soul.

Positive thinking without positive action is dead mind-work. Apply your wisdom to your intelligence for a successful journey.

Don’t change your way of thinking to please those who speak louder. Listen quietly to the voice that speaks to your heart when you read in silence.

As always my dear friend, with your best interest at heart! There is hope!!


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Discernment Gives Discretion

“A truly beautiful woman must practice discernment because this shows that she can make good choices. The verse says that if a woman doesn’t have discernment, then she will make poor choices just like a pig would. Beauty on the outside means nothing if a woman cannot discern whether she’s dressing appropriately or not. A truly beautiful woman fears the Lord and that is what makes Christian women attractive”. —Unknown

There is not much to add to this. A relationship with God that is built in constant communion with Him will always weight more than the latest fab.

“For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,” (1Peter2:21).

We are not called to please the world, to follow the latest fab (even if times has change—He’s still the same God) but we are called to show the world that although we travel through it we are heirs of heaven.

“If you believe you can overcome”

“You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4).

As His children we are “an inheritance that can never, perish, soil or fade”. We are not to be contaminated by this world but to bring clarity to those who walk in its darkness. Dare to make the difference.

“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”

(John 8:12 NIV).

If like Jesus you know where you came from and where you are going, you make sure to make a difference.

As always, with your best interest at heart!

—Denise Kilby


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Equilibrium

As humans we posses the ability to control our thoughts, something that not a lot of people believe, are aware of, or are yet to discover. Whenever we face a stressful situation in life we are capable of recovering from it very quickly… (yes quickly). Is all about the thoughts that we use and put in our minds right after the event to replace mind-blurring, negative thoughts.

Keep in mind this is different than traumatic events (i.e a mother who loses her child, child abuse, or domestic violence).

We are talking about emotions how they affect our mood and how we have the capability to regain control of them!

The difference in the impact that bad situations have in our lives 🆚 the memory of it being erased is that we are more conscious (humanly aware) on how that particular situation made us feel… thus we don’t realize when have freed ourselves from that feeling as the day goes by. Again unconsciously replacing negative thoughts with positive one.

To overcome a bad situation we must accept it, deal with it and move on.

“No one can postpone emotions but everyone can control their thoughts before they become permanent feeling” —Denise K.

A last night argument, misunderstanding, disagreement cannot be the reason you’re walking around grouchy, or grumpy with everyone today. Take those thoughts captive—remember (2 Corinthians 10:5)? Put it to practice!

. **Always make sure that your feeling are being validated at lest by yourself**

Being aware of our emotional state will allow us to understand our feelings which is the first step to recovery from past hurt or emotional imbalance.

Advice:

  1. Control your #impulsiveness become aware of your actions.
  2. Practice self-patient and pray to become patient—always self aware, but yet sensitive to others.
  3. Don’t shy out to try new things; shyness will only place you in a low energy level, resilience, and low sensitivity to the world because you’re too focus in how the world can make you feel. Don’t deprive-yourself.
  4. Be focused to attention, don’t become anxious about things that are yet to come. Being anxious will only delay your recovery from past situation.

If you are reading in actual time have a Happy Friday, become what you believe and recover from resilience, mental health impulsivity, lack of patient, anxiety, physical health condition. Or any other thing that is controlling your mind.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

They’re not stealing your project they’re promoting you.

Many may hang on to your mantle but they can never perform the mission the same way as you.

~ It was you the one with the vision~

It may look as if they are stealing your project at work if demoting from your dream job because of John, or Pamela (to make some names up) may have done better than you? And you’re probably thinking … hmmm they got there because of me! Is this even anywhere fair in life?

It may seem as if it’s not. Life is not fair. I tell you that people can be cruel.

While some some sleep there are others who pray. Who are woken up even when they don’t make plans to wake up and pray to talk to God and are given visions and plans for what they are passionate about, while others are perfectly fine sleeping and freshly saying “I don’t know how you can do it”.

It may seem like you work hard for someone else to steal the mission right from beneath your finger tips when is almost finished, because you got done explaining to them how you created it. I understand, believe me when I tell you I’ve been there. The problem can be that you are not the one creating it, you are only the one with the vision to develop what has already been created.

Don’t feel like you said too much, this was necessary says the Lord, it was part of the plan for you to see where you stand in your intimacy with Him and how far ahead you are compare to others. This is for you to see how much further you will go and why you are in the position you’re in, you were created for bigger things.

I am here to tell you, to REST assure (be at peace) because they will never be able to fulfill the mission like you would, because it was you who God gave the revelation and illumination to. Unless it is work done in agreement and collaboration it will show as work done out of desperation just to mark something done in a calendar while you had it written down from months ago.

I am here to give you HOPE! To remind you that there’s more where that came from you’re more and there’s more within you. Don’t worry about what any human may see, God knows what you’re working on behind close doors, keep your head held high and preparing tables for them if necessary, keep your hard work going and let His peace overflow in such a way that surpasses all understanding.

Have a wonderful day and don’t let anything interrupt your Tuesday. Remember to do first what brings your agenda to a check mark done ✅

God’s peace will overflow in your inner circle when you take time to connect with Him. Follow your dreams and be illuminated by The Holy Spirit through the revelation that comes from reading the word of God.

As always!

With your best interest at heart ♥️


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Christian Lay Counseling. All rights reserved.

Unable to Sleep at Night…

Don’t lose anymore sleep over things that are temporary everything will pass but only one remains

It doesn’t matter what may have interrupted your sleep (at 3:30 am) in the middle of the night, what truly matters is what is keeping you up.

Take a moment to think…what’s keeping up? How are you investing your awake time during those hours that you wish you were sleeping? Now, I’m not talking about your partying weekend—for those who are reading this in actual time since it’s a Saturday morning. I am talking about, about the times were your sleep is interrupted and you cannot pinpoint what is going on that you can’t seem to be able to reconcile sleep.


I must make a parenthesis here: For those who were partying and feel like they are wasting nights and deprive themselves from sleep by doing so can always upon what you’re taking away from your self a selfish act that makes you lack energy and focus today? In which negative ways did you engaged last night (or in prior night) that may have affected your spirit and your energy today, and think about how much different you could have felt if you would have done what the continuation of this post reads.


Are worries and thoughts on temporary things occupying space in your mind where peace and tranquility should be sitting at night? You need your mind clear to have inner peace that allows you to have a free spirit, when you have a free sprit you are able to see things the way they truly are. Everything starts with a thought (I should hashtag that) #eveythingstartswithathought bring your thoughts captive to the obedience of God (2 Co. 10:5).

Have you ever thought, that the first thoughts of your day are the ones that will determine the rest of your day. Wake up with a mind ready for a good day. Start your day determined to conquer. Don’t let a bad wake up become a bad day. Your first thoughts have the power of your entire day. Manipulate them to fit your needs .

Usually to have a peaceful day you need a restful night, but if for any reason you are not getting a restful night I suggest you get an invested night.

“A prayerful night will ALWAYS GIVE the same results as a restful night, because you are resting on the provider of all things. And resting on His embrace”—Denise K

Instead of staying up at night thinking of your home, your car, where you will get your, money from or invest it use prayer as your weapon to kill anxiety, depression, low self esteem, panic attack, mental disorder, spiritual battle, ultimately—fight the enemy.

At the end of the day it will all pass like smoke and the only one that will last forever sitting at eternity is God. Waiting for you soul to see how you handled this life and how cared for it.

For those who are reading in actual time Happy Saturday, have a good weekend.

Remember to protect your peace and be a soul saver whenever you can, or lain the gospel and don’t be afraid to work what you believe. Don’t forget that there’s always new hope and you’re more!

As always my fiends, with your best interest at heart!

—Denise K


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Where is The Center of Your Peace

“You may have political peace, economic peace, social peace, familial peace—all kinds of peace. But there may be someone reading this right now (edited) who does not have the certainty that you have peace with God.” —unknown.

Ask yourself this question:

  • where is the center of my peace?

Peace is found in many different arenas of our lives, in different ways, I would dare to say shapes and forms. Is felt different every time we experience it, but it should always produce the same fruit. Peace of mind, tranquility, calmness, feeling of completeness. However, it can be a superficial or realistic, temporary or permanent inhabitant.

The good news is that the peace that we find with God is eternal, a long lasting one that gives us mental balance and spiritual stability to make help us make right decisions even when we’re facing trials. The peace of God surpasses all understanding, and takes us to a whole different level. Allowing us to walk in peace with others yet, while they are not at peace with us.

“Make peace with them, not because you have to but because you are at peace with God” —Denise

Isn’t this interesting, and contrary to what we hear or see in this world today? We live in a world that believes in the eye for an eye rule until is applied to them.

Just when you thought that making peace with those in this world was enough, here come something deeper. Seek within, search and see if you have peace have peace with God.

Here are some hashtags to take on for your social media today.

#peaceofmind #mentalfreedom #innerpeace #spiritualpeace #godspeace #love #truehappiness #youaremore #thursdayquotes #thursdaythoughts #letslive #forreal #today #freedom #liberty #letsgo #mentalhealth

As always,

With your best interest at heart!

—Denise K.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Make Your Dreams a Reality

Create Connections

Something to take on for the weekend to help create mental balance and spiritual well-being.

Trying to reach everyone can leave one with a feeling of emptiness and unaccomplished, at the same time feeling like everyone is reaching out to us can make ones ego boost out proportion and one can end up feeling greed and end up comparing themselves with others.

Creating balance is essential to grow at the right time in the right areas and help one understand the forces and areas in which we are being processed in order to enjoy our growth step by step.

Dream and create connections that you never envisioned before. Don’t look for followers and don’t live following others.

Make sure to create an aura that attracts the right people and connects you with those who have one alike. Don’t think of those who hit the “following” button as followers think of them as the bridge that will take you to the place you need to get.

Do NOT think of yourself higher than anyone else. Your connections will be your extension to whatever God has awaiting for you.

Don’t let anyone build your character, let your character encourage others and show your attractiveness for you.

Have a free spirit and taste the flavor of a clean soul.

When you follow someone else think of them as a connection necessary to grow and learn from, as a bridge needed to walk through to get to the other side, as an extension to obtain energy from.

Plug in to the right sources and don’t let anyone take your energy from you.

Love freely envision and become what you dreamed of as a child you are more than your current circumstances. Create opportunities instead of situations by linking up with the right people.

Please, believe in yourself.


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching & Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.

Freedom is Found in Forgiveness

The freedom that provides victory is rooted in forgiveness Luke 23:34 and nailed through the bones.

  • Is found in forgiving oneself
  • In the forgiveness of others
  • In asking for forgiveness for others even when they don’t ask for it or understand the meaning of it
  • In understanding that forgiveness is not for others but rather for oneself

Keep the following 4 key points in mind:

  1. Forgiveness does not always mean recovery or reconciliation unless it is self-forgiveness.
  2. For a person to be truly victorious and not become a victim the person has to forgive and reconcile with oneself first and move on past the hurt stage.
  1. Freedom comes when one understands that not everyone knows how to forgive or ask for forgiveness but that the right thing to do was to forgive from the heart in order to obtain spiritual freedom.
  1. Give to them what you would want them to give to you (Luke6:31).

Freedom brings peace to your soul, and enabled loyalty, truthfulness and healing. Reflect on how far you’ve become and give thanks for those you’ve been able to forgive even when they haven’t said I’m sorry.

Ps. Start with yourself! You are a unique soul! #youremore


©️2019 Denise Kilby New Hope Life Coaching and Lay Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.